July 1, 2015

living under the things that fed you

Don't you ever think how lucky you are when you look at where you are now versus where were a year ago? There are no limits, there are no restrictions. You can change your life whenever you want to. No one can ever tell you to stay in something that no longer grows you. It's funny to see people talk without exfoliating their skin because the real truth is some still live under the clothes, shoes, plates, glasses that used to feed them. Check yourself before you wreck yourself. Stay positive y'all. You can always pack up and start fresh. The best part about life is that tomorrow is a new day.

June 19, 2015

When free rides are over...

At some point, people will have to reallze that they have to be an adult at some point in life. One cannot build your dreams for you, you have to do it on your own. You can ask for help, and that's okay. One cannot feed you the drive and motivation that you need, that has to come from within. Do not be angry if one day, the spoon who kept feeding you no longer does it. You cannot ride on someone else's success after they worked hard to build their future, when all you have done is choose to stay down. 

June 8, 2015

And this is how you become fabulous.

Life is full of choices. Smart or poor ones.  If you realized you made a mistake, the admission of it is the most powerful thing you could ever possibly do.  With that being said, do not be afraid to take yourself out of a situation that no longer makes you a better person.  People will say anything about you, and judge you, so you might as well do what you have to do to get what you want.  Even if includes leaving people you once thought brought something to the plate.  Easier said than done?

Let me tell you this, once you throw away an entire life of hard work and do it again in reverse by packing your life in two suitcases, a carry-on and the clothes on your back without ever looking back, you will never be the same person.  You will never take shit from no one.  You will never know how tough you are until you have done the above.  Until then, stay beautiful.

June 7, 2015

Toughness and Tenacity are also found in women

Cheerios, bananas and a good read on a Sunday morning is a way of life.  ESPN wrote an article about Seattle Reign's star soccer player,  Hope Solo.  She is not your typical girl next door.  Many times we go in awe in the Mother Teresa characteristics our society fit women in.  However, we often forget that toughness, strength and inner tenacity that are expected in men can be well seen in women, we choose to ignore it.  Tough and tenacious women are labeled otherwise, such as deviant, bitches, cunts, etc.  To Hope and the many strong women out there, demand that before people can talk bad about you or send you awful messages, ask that they exfoliate their skin, set some life goals and contemplate why they have reached this point.